I was engaged in a long conversation with a sister about some sisters I know personally who have left Islaam.
A sister I knew many years ago came to my attention today when I noticed the recurrent status that she posted blaming God for the mishaps that happened to her and seemed to imply that praying to Him causes her more grieve than it does happiness. In a nutshell, her life came to a halt when she was met with a tragic accident some years ago which resulted in lose of memory. It took a year (if I remember correctly) before she regained her memory again. I went to her profile and saw that she had changed to 'agnostic' under her religious views. Allahu'alam.
This is the sister who used to top the class in religious studies. She was respected for her good character and impressed religious teachers for her knowledge of the Deen. I remember her as being a role model to the younger ones to follow and I was one of them who tried to emulate her.
It is sad to learn about our own Muslims leaving Islaam as a result of obstacles that they had to face. I can relate to her on some level so I guess I know how it feels. But still, who am I to judge? Allah has clearly stated in the Qur'an that He chooses whom He wants to be guided. Therefore, if it is not in His will to guide someone, it would be a futile attempt to try convince a person to embrace Islaam.
Indeed it was also mentioned in the following Suraahs:
"Do people think that they will be left alone because they say: "We believe," and will not be tested. And We indeed tested those who were before them.... " (29:2)
"Or think you that you will enter Paradise without such (trials) as came to those who passed away before you? They were afflicted with severe poverty and ailments and were so shaken that even the Messenger and those who believed along with him said, "When (will come) the Help of Allâh?" Yes! Certainly, the Help of Allâh is near!" (2:214)
Sisters, this reminder is for ME first before I remind any of you because I fear of being afflicted with hardships and then forgetting the importance of being patient in times of difficulties. We should be closer to Allah when we are being tested because of the immense rewards we get for being patient and constantly seeking Allah's help in rectifying our affairs. I fear that my heart is too attached to this dunya that any loss in property or loved ones becomes the cause for my loss of eemaan.
The sister whom I was discussing about this with said that if we truly understood how it is like in the Hereafter, any afflictions that we face in this dunya suddenly becomes trivial in our eyes. We would not live in this dunya like we would now if we could catch just a glimpse of Jannah.
Verily, We sent (Messengers) to many nations before you (O Muhammad SAW). And We seized them with extreme poverty (or loss in wealth) and loss in health with calamities so that they might believe with humility. (42) When Our Torment reached them, why then did they not humble themselves (believe with humility)? But their hearts became hardened, and Shaitân (Satan) made fair-seeming to them that which they used to do. (43) So, when they forgot (the warning) with which they had been reminded, We opened for them the gates of every (pleasant) thing, until in the midst of their enjoyment in that which they were given, all of a sudden, We took them (in punishment), and lo! They were plunged into destruction with deep regrets and sorrows. (6:42)
Innallahamaasobirin; Truly, Allah is with those who are patient.
I came across a blog post today about a known sister who left Islaam and it saddens me to read about her. Allahu'alam on the validity of it. May Allah guide them back to Islaam, aameen.
Sisters, if we do come across another sister who is facing such a situation, please do not be the first to judge and call her a Kafir. I came across a couple of brothers and sisters who are too quick to criticize them without trying to help rectify the problem. Only Allah can be the judge, not us. We can help by understanding their situations and clear up possible misconceptions they may have. Who knows, by Allah's will, they might embrace Islaam again. Allahu'alam.
May Allah keep our hearts firm on this Deen, Aameen.
The bounty that comes from Allah to a believer due to his trial is greater than the bounty that comes from Allah during his times of ease. [Ibn Rajab}
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Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Signs of Weak Imaan
Posted by: Zee Salik
SIGNS OF WEAK IMAAN
1) Committing sins and not feeling any guilt.
2) Having a hard heart and no desire to read the Quran.
3) Feeling too lazy to do good deeds, e.g. being late for salat
4) Neglecting the Sunnah.
5) Having mood swings, for instance being upset about petty things and bothered and irritated most of the time.
6) Not feeling anything when hearing verses from the Quran, for example when Allah warns us of punishments and His promise of glad tidings.
7) Finding difficulty in remembering Allah and making dhikr.
8) Not feeling bad when things are done against the Shariah.
9) Desiring status and wealth.
10) Being mean and miserly, i.e. not wanting to part with wealth.
11) Ordering others to do good deeds when not practicing them ourselves.
12) Feeling pleased when things are not progressing for others
13) Being concerned with whether something is haram or halal only; and not avoiding makroo (not recommended) things.
14) Making fun of people who do simple good deeds, like cleaning the mosque.
15) Not feeling concerned about the situation of Muslims.
16) Not feeling the responsibility to do something to promote Islam.
17) Being unable to deal with calamities, for instance crying and yelling in funerals.
18) Liking to argue just for the sake of arguing without any proof.
19) Becoming engrossed and very involved with dunya, worldly things, i.e. feeling bad only when losing something in terms of material wealth.
20) Becoming engrossed and obsessive about ourselves.Please share this note with your friends and post it in your profile too.
SIGN OF WEAK IMAAN (translated to Bahasa, Indonesian Language)Tanda-tanda Melemahnya IMAAN
1) Melakukan hal berdosa dan tidak memiliki perasaan bersalah.
2) Memiliki kekerasan hati dan tidak memiliki keinginan untuk membaca Quran.
3) Merasa terlalu malas untuk melakukan perbuatan baik, seperti terlambat melaksanakan sholat
4) Mengabaikan Sunnah.
5) Memiliki perasaan gamang, seperti kecewa akan hal-hal kecil, merasa terganggu dan jengkel dalam sebagian besar waktu.
6) Tidak merasakan apapun ketika mendengar ayat-ayat dari Quran, misalnya, ketika Allah memperingatkan kita akan hukumanNya dan janjiNya tentang berita baik.
7) Mengalami kesulitan dalam mengingat Allah dan melakukan dhikr.
8) Tidak merasa bersalah bila melakukan hal yang bertentangan dengan Syariah.
9) Lebih mementingkan status dan kekayaan.
10) Menjadi sangat pelit, seperti tidak menginginkan bagian dari kekayaan/kemakmuran.
11) Memerintahkan orang lain untuk melakukan perbuatan baik tetapi tidak mempraktekkannya untuk diri mereka sendiri.
12) Merasa senang ketika sesuatu tidak berjalan baik bagi orang lain.
13) Hanya peduli pada sesuatu yang halal atau haram saja, tetapi tidak menghindari hal-hal makro (yang tidak disarankan).
14) Memperolok orang-orang yang melakukan perbuatan baik yang dianggap sederhana, seperti membersihan masjid.
15) Tidak merasa prihatin dengan situasi umat Islam.
16) Tidak merasa tanggung jawab untuk melakukan sesuatu untuk memajukan Islam.
17) Tidak dapat mengatasi hal yang menyedihkan, misalnya berteriak dan menangis di pemakaman.
18) Menyukai perdebatan hanya sekadar untuk berargumentasi tanpa didasari bukti.
19) Menjadi asyik dan sangat terlibat dengan dunia, hal duniawi, seperti merasa sedih ketika kehilangan sesuatu yang bersifat kebendaan.
20) Menjadi asyik dan obsesif akan diri sendiri
SIGNS OF WEAK IMAAN
1) Committing sins and not feeling any guilt.
2) Having a hard heart and no desire to read the Quran.
3) Feeling too lazy to do good deeds, e.g. being late for salat
4) Neglecting the Sunnah.
5) Having mood swings, for instance being upset about petty things and bothered and irritated most of the time.
6) Not feeling anything when hearing verses from the Quran, for example when Allah warns us of punishments and His promise of glad tidings.
7) Finding difficulty in remembering Allah and making dhikr.
8) Not feeling bad when things are done against the Shariah.
9) Desiring status and wealth.
10) Being mean and miserly, i.e. not wanting to part with wealth.
11) Ordering others to do good deeds when not practicing them ourselves.
12) Feeling pleased when things are not progressing for others
13) Being concerned with whether something is haram or halal only; and not avoiding makroo (not recommended) things.
14) Making fun of people who do simple good deeds, like cleaning the mosque.
15) Not feeling concerned about the situation of Muslims.
16) Not feeling the responsibility to do something to promote Islam.
17) Being unable to deal with calamities, for instance crying and yelling in funerals.
18) Liking to argue just for the sake of arguing without any proof.
19) Becoming engrossed and very involved with dunya, worldly things, i.e. feeling bad only when losing something in terms of material wealth.
20) Becoming engrossed and obsessive about ourselves.Please share this note with your friends and post it in your profile too.
SIGN OF WEAK IMAAN (translated to Bahasa, Indonesian Language)Tanda-tanda Melemahnya IMAAN
1) Melakukan hal berdosa dan tidak memiliki perasaan bersalah.
2) Memiliki kekerasan hati dan tidak memiliki keinginan untuk membaca Quran.
3) Merasa terlalu malas untuk melakukan perbuatan baik, seperti terlambat melaksanakan sholat
4) Mengabaikan Sunnah.
5) Memiliki perasaan gamang, seperti kecewa akan hal-hal kecil, merasa terganggu dan jengkel dalam sebagian besar waktu.
6) Tidak merasakan apapun ketika mendengar ayat-ayat dari Quran, misalnya, ketika Allah memperingatkan kita akan hukumanNya dan janjiNya tentang berita baik.
7) Mengalami kesulitan dalam mengingat Allah dan melakukan dhikr.
8) Tidak merasa bersalah bila melakukan hal yang bertentangan dengan Syariah.
9) Lebih mementingkan status dan kekayaan.
10) Menjadi sangat pelit, seperti tidak menginginkan bagian dari kekayaan/kemakmuran.
11) Memerintahkan orang lain untuk melakukan perbuatan baik tetapi tidak mempraktekkannya untuk diri mereka sendiri.
12) Merasa senang ketika sesuatu tidak berjalan baik bagi orang lain.
13) Hanya peduli pada sesuatu yang halal atau haram saja, tetapi tidak menghindari hal-hal makro (yang tidak disarankan).
14) Memperolok orang-orang yang melakukan perbuatan baik yang dianggap sederhana, seperti membersihan masjid.
15) Tidak merasa prihatin dengan situasi umat Islam.
16) Tidak merasa tanggung jawab untuk melakukan sesuatu untuk memajukan Islam.
17) Tidak dapat mengatasi hal yang menyedihkan, misalnya berteriak dan menangis di pemakaman.
18) Menyukai perdebatan hanya sekadar untuk berargumentasi tanpa didasari bukti.
19) Menjadi asyik dan sangat terlibat dengan dunia, hal duniawi, seperti merasa sedih ketika kehilangan sesuatu yang bersifat kebendaan.
20) Menjadi asyik dan obsesif akan diri sendiri
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